Convo with my Nephew.. *Disturbing News*

Well, I just talked to my nephew and we had a great talk.. We discussed his brother and family and my family and we talked about his mom.. My sister.. He said that she cut herself off of the family and that according to my nephew Matt, that her DH is a bully and an butthead.. I can say worse, but honestly I dont know the man well enough.. All I know is she needs to not be so co-dependant and learn to live on her own.. Hard as that sounds its the only thing she should do.. I mean yeah she adopted some kids, but thats not the true reason to stay with some one who treats your kids like shit and not respect your kids who are adults and need help.. Yea some times I wished some one would help me buy a house but ya know. Why have that hang over my head that some one has the power to say when or what I can do in my own home? I dont think so.. So yeah its best to learn how to do things by myself and not have to depend on other people who think they know best.. Not nescerrly they know best.. My nephew also said that Aric his brother and family are moving back here to Cali he wants to graduate a bulldog ( Our State University has a bulldog mascott) and so he wants to move him and his wife and 3 kids out here by the end of next year.. I honestly think it's best to do that..Since its got to be some sort of deal where they can make a better life and not depend on anyone.. As hard as it sounds we all have to learn to do things on our own, if we dont,then we'd end up in alot worse situation than we are now..

So things are a tad of a mess.. We talked bout the past some and about my parents home and how much we'd love to get back the house.. Some day I think we all are going to try and see about getting it back.. but I need some congreat evidence to see what I can do to see if anything is fraud and dont illegally.. Well thats it for now. Just need to think... I love my sister yes, and I know deep down she has alot of growing up to do and needs to find a way to learn a few things.. Well, thats it for now.. God bless..

Laura